Four friends

I have hundreds of friends. I’ve lived in the same area my entire life. My guys comment that I “know everybody” whenever we go anywhere! Yet, as I prepare to move, I realize the depth (or lack of) of many of these relationships. Kathy Guy wrote a post this morning titled Do you have your four [...]

Being mean

Compromise–something intermediate between different things; a settlement of differences by mutual concessions; accommodation, settlement
Compromise–to expose or make vulnerable to danger, suspicion, scandal, etc.; jeopardize; negotiate, risk, sellout, settle

One word can have two completely different implications. Compromising to settle differences may be the best approach. Neither side gets exactly what they want, but together they may [...]

Stand and believe

I’ve been facing some opposition lately as I share more of my story. I’ve been criticized, told I should “leave the past alone” and that “secrets should remain that way”. I’ve always been the “black sheep” and for many it’s easier for me to remain that way than to upset anyone else (that’s living in [...]

Single parenting is hard

First the disclaimer: This post isn’t a whine fest. It’s not about me. This is just an honest expression of what is, for those who are single parents and for everyone else who knows one (which, unless you live under a rock, is probably every person reading this). What I write may not apply to all, [...]

Camping with kids…priceless

The other day I read this post and it prompted some wonderful memories. Camping has always been one of my favorite activities that we’ve done as a family. Camping can be an affordable, fun and relaxing way to create incredible stories, memories, and family bonding. As a single mom, I never thought I could take my kids [...]

Systems for dummies–Part 2

When I cook, I usually don’t follow a recipe. To me most recipes are simply guidelines. I know what I want to make, have an idea how I’m going to do it, but then I change it up. I substitute ingredients, try new combinations, or eliminate steps altogether. With 3 growing boys in my house, I rarely have [...]